I was just thinking..... When I was a kid I learned that you have to stick up with your family members no matter what. "Blood is stronger than anything"
Now thinking a lil bit more....
How should we act when a family member does not act in a way we believe is the right way...what happens when we disagree with them?
Should we just be quite?
Should we try to enlighten them with our point of view?
Should we just treat the situation on the same way as if it was with a friend?
Should we forgive them right away?
Do they have the right to say whatever they think under the protection of a family member blanket?
This is a though one....
If you know what I mean...we cannot just ignore our family...OR can we? Depending on how bad the situation is?
My opinion today on this matter is that....we should try, at least try to give the benefit of the doubt...try harder to see the other person point of view....and forgive, if you can.....just because.....I dont really know why...maybe because is the blood thing....
But a better person would say we should use this approach towards everybody....
hum...maybe that is asking too much..let's just start being more flexible with our family members...or with everyone if you can.
xoxo
juju
It is My World!
A space where I can share my ideas and maybe read other people's opinions about everything. Yes, I am very analytical and usually I have a opinion about things around me..Sometimes I am right, wrong, sometimes I don's even realize that is something to have an opinion of. I am brazilian living in the USA and some posts will be in English/Portuguese. I don't have the intention to watch every word I write. Reality is I want to be a better myself and enjoy this thing we call LIFE!
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Ontem eu tive a ideia de fazer um blog meu para que eu possa colocar meus pensamentos e tal....DONE!
E agora?....Any thoughts?
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